Hi Guust
We are using Ultimate Member now. TML had some issues, and Ultimate Member is working like a charm, its great. We also added Paid Memberships pro, that seems to be working well with Geodirectory too.
The issue I had though was GeoDirectory adding the Account menu, which linked to other pages. I have now managed to remove it. But my mind has gone blank how I removed it! Instead I added in custom menu links to the menu.
So its OK now. Wish I could remember how I removed the Geo Directory Account menu though.